Discussion

What feelings did Patrick feel?

What might have helped Patrick at this time?

What could his friends have done?

What might his family have done?

What or who might help him now?

How to Help

Let’s develop strategies to help people who have been bereaved.

Some pointers are

• Do not avoid the person, try to see them as soon as possible and say I’m sorry.
• Understand that people feel bad after bereavement. Allow them the opportunity to feel bad. (What does feeling bad mean?)
• Allow the person the chance to talk or be upset.
• Sometimes the person may be glad to do ordinary things like playing. Give them this opportunity but don’t be offended if they refuse. Continue to invite them to be part of things.